![[PukiWiki]](image/pukiwiki.png "[PukiWiki]")
https://bit.ly/3tE3mg6 https://bit.ly/3ISNkFf https://bit.ly/3KuBNg6 https://bit.ly/35ZpxVU https://bit.ly/3MrqYwS https://bit.ly/3tIy0EO https://bit.ly/34pvFGl https://bit.ly/3MyaHGn https://bit.ly/3Cmhizf https://bit.ly/3HSRgoc https://bit.ly/3hQmj9S
What happens to the ideal if you cannot find the time to please him and do your job both to your own standards? (As far as my job is concerned, at this time we cannot afford to live on one income.) I know I should think of his standards, but I can’t find satisfaction in what I am doing that way, especially in my job. And then there’s my need to see friends and do fun things every once in a while. That’s more than just a desire.
All in all, sometimes I just feel small, frustrated and under a lot of pressure. That’s not at all how he wants me to feel. He wants me to be strong and proud and feel happy. Any good advice? Women only!
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Jul 13 - 17:10 | reply to this comment I love pleasing him I love plasing him though I do not feel like a girl. I have so many matters to manage... But I learn not to worry too much, I learn to let things go, when it is possible. The only responsibilities that I can not put away are my children and my parents.
He never told me "good girl" so I can not know how it feels like, but maybe it would be freeing and calming...
Hali
by HaliH on 2006 Jul 13 - 18:46 | reply to this comment
I wrote my previous post before reading "Where do I go wrong?"
I ment pleasing in a general meaning, not cleaning "his" home. In my situation, his home is my home. Cleaning can be very exhausting, and what I especially dislike is vacuuming - this is my son's job 
I am all in all cleanly person and do cleaning much, but as my husband is, he doesn't care much for tidiness.
Hali
by HaliH on 2006 Jul 13 - 19:40 | reply to this comment Lovey & Lusty
